ok I fix it, just follow this stepsI also have the same problem, if anyone can share the method here, yesterday it was available but you have to pay
stop the project from aapanel manually
login with ssh
# Install PM2 globally
npm install pm2 -g
# Start Node.js project with PM2
cd /www/wwwroot/your_project_folder
pm2 start app.js --name project_name <<<<<<< must be same as aapanel project name
# Check running processes
pm2 list
# Save process list
pm2 save
# Set PM2 to start on boot
pm2 startup
# Reboot your server
reboot
# Check list to ensure synchronization
pm2 list
now check it ... it should be running automatically under aapanel
let me know if it is working for you
thanks